Discourse on Love

Love! Who doesn’t know about love? Probably besides Plato and Newton (who remained unmarried and unloved by ladies), all peoples either dead or living do know what is love with their individual perception and intuition depending upon their age, interest, thoughts, and preferences. So to discuss about love is a hard psychological issue and a philosophical discussion because we all do love. Here we shall discuss love as a psychological phenomenon regarding the attraction of two opposite genders confining ourselves to humans, and we must not believe that animals and other creatures doesn’t love each other, but since we have understood human behavior more, we shall look at the love from the perspective of humans especially regarding attraction of two opposite sexes. Love begins from immediate attraction towards something that fascinates us and leaves us in awe. Then it grows exponentially each day, sometimes remaining constant whereas sometimes diminishing after a certain limit. We shall not be rigorous in mathematics to discuss growth, progress and regress, but shall discuss it in a generalized way. Now, let us look at some condition of love which might not have been explored yet. 

Love as a disease:
Well! We can’t find any other disease that is more infectious then love, that occurs to all humans(except conditions like Plato and Newton) from the early  phase of adolescence and that infection takes place all over the world as a pandemic. Author aruges that if there had been aliens then they too, by natural laws would be infected by love. Now, let us closely discuss about the disease called love. The primary cause for love is immediate attraction towards something. After that attraction, symptoms begins to appear which are listed as:
1.Needing to see attracted person frequently.
2.Needing to hear attracted person frequently.
3.Needing to stay close with the person
4.Needing to impress the person
5.Hating those who seems to rival.
6.Thinking about  the person too much.
7.Acting as per the person’s preferences. 

These are the basic symptoms that are observed during the course of love. Sure, where there are symptoms, certain preventive measures does prevail automatically for all sorts of circumstances that does occur. Now let us list the preventive measures for love:
1.Focusing on self instead of loved.
2.Proposing the beloved instantly.

Proposing the loved person instantly is a hard subject to agree because love demands wait, love demands understanding, love demands to know each other more and by the time when these demands are fulfilled madness would already have acted to work severing the disease love. Thus proposing instantly would be a better solution being either accepted or rejected. Rejection after madness results in dangers with threats resulting even in suicide. Thus it is better to be rejected early to prevent madness. Our first point focusing on self avoids unnecessary distractions, hence prevents harmful effects of love. 

Aftermath:
We discussed about preventive measures, and let us look at aftermath of acceptance. Lovers will spend time with each others understanding each other and their love grows day by day. Love acts like as energizer providing energy to survive and that continues. Now, let us associate mathematics to love to elaborate an equation. We shall write

L = C_kU^xB^y
Where,
“L” is the love.
"C_k" is the constant called Kabita’s conscience
"U^x" is the understanding, where power 'x' added to base “U(Understanding)” is a real number.
"B^y" is the behaviour and power 'y' added to base “B(Behaviour and Co-operation” is another real number. 

This equation is called Kabita’s equation that describes love, named after one of the student of author with name Kabita Baral studying in Class 9 during 2079 B.S at Mount Everest English Secondary School for her childness and art displaying by the childness of ink which is a subject of discourse on other works.

In the equation, when powers are highers, i.e when the value of x and y are higher, love grows exponentially. When both powers are zero, only conscience is left, and that makes a man like a sage or a hermit. For negative power in base “U” and “B” love diminishes because the conscience has to be divided by understanding and behaviour. Behaviour and co-operation are important because in absence of co-operation love degrades. Kabita’s conscience is discussed as constant, because conscience always remains constant, though it seems like a variable that increases depending upon the same understanding, behaviour and co-operation and knowledge. We have discussed Kabita’s conscience as a constant to allow it to work full-flexibly for a certain instant of time, as well as to predict for the passage for time relying on variables “U” and “B”.  

Thus, author requests to lovers to handle love carefully as it is a subject of handle-with-care. 
May Bom Bholeynath bless everyone with love. 

 

 

Author: Arjun Dahal
Mental Asylum of Education
P.O. Box: 1
Gauradaha, Jhapa